Once upon a time…..there was a mom who had two little children. One was five and the other six months old.
Loneliness and just having that feeling inside of her that there was ’something more’ she decided to run a business that had just literally fallen into her lap.
She bought a ’starter kit’ at a home party show cause it was way cheaper to do that than to ‘outright buy’ all the wonderful things she had fallen in love with. Candles, crystal and solid brass items…quality pieces that she couldn’t just ‘buy now’ on her family budget.
Once she gleefully opened up her kit of “goodies” she actually sat down and started reading the ‘manual’ that came with it. Mmmm…to think that she could actually make a dollar or two spurred her ‘creative genius’.
Her skeptical husband said, “How are you going to do that? And who would be your customers? This product is too expensive!”
She knew though in her heart that ’something had led her’ to this particular product.
Having invited over for dinner one of her most skeptical friends, who also had a great taste for expensive things, she said to her husband “Look, if Mrs. Skeptical decides to buy what I have, and wants to host a party for me…then I will know that this is, indeed, the business for me! Not only that, but she will decide this tonite within the first 15 min’s of coming into our house!”
Well, skeptical husband didn’t even wait 15 min’s….Mrs. Skeptical came into the house…saw the mom’s new pieces and within five min’s said “Oh my goodness, this is beautiful! Are you selling this? I used to sell MaryKay and I will host a party for you!”
Born in that moment in the mom’s heart was confirmation that she had indeed chosen a great product, and if she could instantly get Mrs. Skeptical on her side…success would be hers…and it WAS SO!
I guess I don’t need to tell you that I was that mom! I made a decision to start a business & had three key ingredients that made me start, and also three “motivators to my success”.
Just how successful was I? Let’s try to the tune of $4,200/week average, won National Leadership awards, earned Top Ranking Consultant too many times to count! I must just add here that I accomplished this in a tiny little town with less than 10,000 people!
Here are the Top three reasons most moms/mompreneurs decide to start in a business!
1) There are just plain lonely and in desperate need for some Adult/Female conversation! Let’s face it….women on average talk 40% more than men, so if you are planning on your DH (darling hubby) to provide that Convo that you need everyday just to stay sane…uh it ain’t gonna happen!
2) Need for the Extra income. Whether you have come from the corporate job and have now decided to be a SAHM (stay at home mom) or like our young family the need for that little bit extra is a top motivator for moms!
3) Knowing that your life is missing just that “Something”…that you were meant to do! After all, every mom at some point wonders if this is all her life is cracked up to be: changing diapers, nursing, breakfast lunch dinner, bath times and puke times! It doesn’t mean you don’t love these things…maybe minus the puke, but you start to seriously question what your “Better good” is!
Let me continue my story just a little bit more!
At my shows, which I absolutely Loved doing BTW, I had hundreds (yes hundreds) of women in other businesses keep asking me two questions: 1) How do you keep getting so many bookings? (I averaged around 10-15/mth) and 2) How are you getting such high sales? (again I AVERAGED around $750…which mean some were the minimum $250 and some were over $1500!)
At that point in my business these were two questions I honestly couldn’t answer! I guess I didn’t have a ’set formula’ then for success! I loved what I was doing, I loved sharing what I was doing and I definitely loved to make the money I was making!
After I ‘retired’ from that business, God has a great sense of humor so I developed ‘allergies’ to alot of the fragrances, I tried a few other business’s sucked in by the money aspect. Did I do well in these other business’s? Sadly, no!
I hopped from business to business, trying to find the ‘right one’ for me again! I tried everything from scrapbooking (mom of six here) to vitamins (health is good right?) to even an on-line self development course (which I found after having been told I had a hrt condition).
Now, don’t get me wrong, I really did love all of these businesses and I’m 100% certain of their merits and value that I could add to peoples lives….but one thing was missing….my heart! That little voice in my gut saying “This is what you are meant to do!”
I started some real ’soul searching’. I don’t believe that something happens in our lives for no reason! So I sat down and for four months really worked out what my passion is!
Here it is: “My passion is to help other moms/mompreneurs learn the three steps I did to Be happy, Love what you do & Make money doing it!”
Here are the three steps that I realized years after many ladies were asking me how I got more bookings and higher sales:
1) I knew that something in my life was missing and allowed something new to open up to me!
2) Once I fell in love with a certain product (or passion) I was not deterred by what other people told me. I was focused and used the simple techniques that I was told by my mentors.
3) I knew in my heart that this was for me, and I believed that it was going to work for me.
Bio: Jody is a WAHM, owner of www.DesignedforDivineDestinations.com, mom of six of a blended family, an accomplished ToastMaster & Speaker and has a passion to work with mompreneurs!